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Saturday, December 27, 2014

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Tuxedo at 2 months; at 18 months, he's a little longer!
A quiet third day of Christmas. Here I sit with a big baby tuxedo cat, named Tuxie, typing, a cup of homemade navy bean soup at my elbow. It is only 5:30, and pitch dark.  Christmas lights reflect in the window. I've crossed off a number of things off my list, and done them slowly, in my own time.  I even baked the cookies I promised to a friend of mine in Florida. To have a few days ahead of me to finish a few things during my favorite season of the year is priceless.  Virginia Woolf wrote something like, "I have three days alone, three rare and valuable pearls."  I don't have it quite right, but you have the idea.

The Feloni Family Christmas, or lack there of, nearly finished me.  A fictional account will soon follow, but those who follow me on Facebook, know sarcasm when you see it.

Silent Night, finally, indeed.

So far, the best sales I've encountered are at the Dillard's Chain of department stores, 50% off but very good quality.   Schnuck's chain of grocery stores has 75% off, with lovely florals and light up ornaments.  Von Maur was the best, with 75% off and very good quality, including Radko, Waterford, Swarovski, and more.  The Discovery Shops, which benefit The American Cancer Society, also had 75% off, and our stores had great selection.  The Younkers chain, which includes Elder Bierman, and used to owned by Saks, had 70% off, but was way overpriced in the first place.

My Vintage Christmas and Golden Glow of Christmas Facebook Groups probably have more ideas for sales.

Peace is everything, to shepherds in the fields, wise men, and stressed out women of a certain age.  Merry Christmas.

Friday, December 19, 2014

Miss Charlotte Bronte meets Miss Barbara Pym: Dr. E's Doll Museum Blog: Merry Christmas!!

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You and Your Money; Sharing

From about.com, one of my fellow experts has come up with some great comments on frugality and its downsides:

6 Surprising Ways Your Frugality Is Costing You

By Paula Pant

Budgeting & Personal Finance Expert

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 Frugality, in itself, is a good thing. But when taken to the extreme, frugality can actually backfire, costing you more money than you’re saving.

Here are 6 big ways being too much of a cheapskate can actually hurt you financially.

1. You’re Wasting Your Time

If you spend hours each week clipping coupons, comparing store circulars and going from store to store to snag whatever’s on sale that week, you may not be getting a good return on your investment.

The time you’re spending trying to save a fraction here and a fraction there could actually be better spent on things like working more hours, selling some of your unwanted stuff or starting that side business you’ve always talked about. Make sure the time you’re investing is really worth the payoff you’re getting.

2. You’re Not Buying Quality

You may be able to buy a pair of bargain bin trainers for next to nothing, but the deal won’t be so great when they wear out in a couple months and you just have to buy another pair.

When it comes to things like clothing, shoes, major electronics and car and home repairs, make sure you’re getting both a good cost and a product that will last you for years to come. Sometimes it’s worth paying more for quality.

3. You’re Too Susceptible to a “Good Deal”

If you just can’t resist the lure of a bargain, you could be spending more than you need to.
If you can find a great price on something you were already planning on purchasing, that’s fantastic. But don’t buy something just because it seems like “too good of a deal to pass up.” That’s precisely what stores are hoping you’ll do.

4. You’re Cutting Corners

Sometimes you need to spend money to save money. This includes things like taking your car in for regularly scheduled maintenance and hiring a professional to do repairs around the home you don’t feel you can properly do yourself.
Neglect these things, and you could find it coming back to haunt you (and cost you) in future.

5. You’re Not Being Healthy

It may be cheaper to eat lunch off the value menu at McDonald’s, but that doesn’t mean it’s a smart choice. Investing in your health can save you hundreds (or more) in medical care down the line, so make sure you’re not sacrificing nutrition.
You also don’t want to skimp on annual checkups with your doctor and dentist, or on following any instructions they give you.

6. You Feel Deprived

If your budget is so strict you feel like you never have any fun, you’re hurting your relationships or you never treat yourself to anything, then loosen up a little.

Successful money management means using your money in a way that allows you to lead the life you want. Make some room for enjoyment or you’re missing the mark.

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

New Tropical Plants

From Logees' Newletter:

Logee's Newsletter

Fruiting, Rare and Tropical Plants
Growers Since 1892

New Plant Introductions for Annual 2015


The Logee's Annual 2015 catalog will be arriving in customers' homes the first week of January.  We are introducing 65 new plants and accessories in this big 88 page catalog. Here's a preview of some of our new plants.

Collection of Sea Shell Tillandsias

This Collection of Sea Shell Tillandsias includes (from right to left in the photo): Tillandsia Ionanatha, red Brachycaulos Abdita and Capitata Peach. Each tillandsia is mounted in a sea shell (shells vary in size and shape) that sits nicely on a windowsill, lighted shelf or other plant display area for you to enjoy. Simply soak in water once or twice a week to keep the plants healthy.

New Introduction $24.95


(Lawsonia inermis)

Henna is a well-known dye plant used in hair coloring and non-permanent tattoos.  Small fragrant white flowers appear from spring to fall and you can maintain this plant as a small shrub by pruning.  It prefers to be grown in full sun and warm temperatures. It's easy to make your own henna dye from the dried leaves.  4" pot.

R2879-4  New Introduction $19.95

Hibiscus 'Voodoo Queen'

(Hibiscus rosa-sinensis hybrid)

Just like magic, 'Voodoo Queen' changes colors in a single day.  The large, 7-8" flowers open with pink petals highlighted with violet centers and a burgundy heart. By the afternoon, the color changes to yellow petals with gray-lavender centers and a strawberry heart. These blooms are spectacular!

4" pot.

R2884-4  New Introduction $19.95

Bougainvillea 'Vera Variegata'

(Bougainvillea hybrid)

Bougainvilleas are loved for their colorful floral bracts and everblooming nature.  'Vera Variegata' has all of that and more.  It has a compact growth habit, stunning white and green leaf variegation and bright pink flowers.  Grow in full sun for maximum flowering. 2.5" pot.

R2874-2 New Introduction $12.95

Fig 'Violette de Bordeaux'

(Ficus carica)

A dwarf growth habit makes Fig 'Violette de Bordeaux' well suited for containers.  The medium-sized, purplish-black fruit has a sweet, dark red center and many people consider this variety to be one of the best tasting figs for eating fresh or preserving. Hardy to zone 6. 4" Pot.

R2847-4 New Introduction $17.95

Elephant Ear 'Pink China'

(Colocasia hybrid)

Brilliant pink stems and rich green leaves with a pink dot in the center add vibrant color to any container or garden. Possibly the hardiest of all colocasias, 'Pink China' can tolerate zone 6 with a heavy layer of mulch as winter protection. It reaches 4' tall the first season. 4" pot.

R2862-4 New Introduction $19.95

Begonia 'Satin Jazz'

(Begonia rex hybrid) 

'Satin Jazz' is a new Logee's exclusive hybrid rex begonia that has dusty colors of grayish-green with striking maroon borders and deep red veining. It has an upright growth habit and unlike many rex begonias, it doesn't go dormant in the winter so you'll have year-round color on your windowsill.  2.5" pot.

B3280-2 New Introduction $11.95

Crown of Thorns 'Dreamland'

(Euphorbia milii hybrid)

Cheery yellow flowers have distinctive orange and green markings in every petal making it very showy when in full bloom.  Individual flowers measure 1-2" and the bloom cluster is 4-6" wide. Euphorbias are indestructible houseplants that thrive on a sunny windowsill.  2.5" pot.

S7872-2 New Introduction $14.95

Gardenia 'Crown Jewel' p.p. 

(Gardenia jasminoides hybrid) 

This new gardenia was selected for its fragrant, double, white blooms and cold hardiness to zone 6 with winter protection.  In the garden, its dwarf growth habit usually reaches 2' high but it often spreads to 4' wide. It also makes an ideal, fragrant, flowering plant for containers. 4" pot.

R2850-4 New Introduction $16.95

Pandan Grass

(Pandanus amaryllifolius)

Widely used in Southeast Asian cooking as a flavoring for rice, chicken, beverages and pastries, the leaves of Pandan Grass impart an aromatic flavor to food.  This upright plant has slender, green leaves and aerial roots at the base. The leaves are also used for wrapping meat before cooking.  4" pot.

H8226-4 New Introduction $14.95

Desert Rose 'Giant Diamond'

(Adenium obesum) 

Large, fully double, pink and white, 3.5" flowers create quite a show when in full bloom.  The petal edges and petal flares are deep rose pink. Grow in full sun and warm temperatures.  This is a grafted plant with a large, thickened caudex. 4" pot.

S7878-4G  New Introduction  $29.95

Purple-Stemmed Elephant Ear

(Xanthosoma violaceum)

Purple-Stemmed Elephant Ear, or Blue Taro, has tall purple stems and creates a colorful focal point in the garden or large container. The large, blue-green, arrowhead-shaped leaves usually reach about 2-3' long and have purple veins on the undersides of each leaf. 4" pot.

R2858-4 New Introduction $19.95

Primulina 'Piccolo'

(Primulina hybrid)

Primulina 'Piccolo' makes an excellent windowsill or light garden plant because of its small size and ability to flower non-stop.  It has an attractive rosette shape with patterned dark leaves highlighted by a light stripe in the middle.  Tall sprays of lavender flowers arch out of the center of the plant. 2.5" pot.

T5091-2  New Introduction $9.95

Fig 'Olympian'

(Ficus carica)

First discovered in Olympia, Washington, 'Olympian' Fig bears fruit at an early age and has an abundant early first crop. The large purple figs are the size of tangerines and have a sweet, dark inner pulp. This award-winning fig is cold hardy to zone 6 and it produces well in cool and coastal climates.  4" pot.

R2859-4  New Introduction $17.95

Australian Tree Fern 'Brentwood'

(Cyathea cooperi hybrid)

Selected for its vigor, 'Brentwood' is a fast growing tree fern with a thick trunk and a full crown of light green fronds.  It can be grown as a landscape plant in tropical zones or a container plant in the north. As it matures, braided roots form the truck. The spectacular fronds in the leafy crown can reach up to 8' long. 4" pot.

F6058-4 New Introduction $14.95

Toothache Plant

(Acmella oleacea)

Toothache Plant is a medicinal herb that's been used for generations to manage the pain of toothaches.  Both the leaves and the attractive golden flowers can be used as a natural anesthetic.  Simply chew the leaves for a few seconds then you'll experience a tingling and numbing sensation in your mouth. Also called Spilanthes oleracea. 2.5" pot.

H8227-2 New Introduction $12.95

Hibiscus 'Gabriel'

(Hibiscus rosa-sinensis hybrid)

Wow! These flowers are gorgeous.  The purple petals have light orange edges that change to yellow as the bloom matures. The heart of the 6-8" flower is deep red.  You'll definitely want to add this new Cajun hibiscus hybrid to your tropical plant collection.  4" pot.

R2876-4 New Introduction  $19.95

Elephant Ear 'Low Rider'

(Alocasia hybrid)

'Low Rider' is a compact plant with wavy-edged leaves that looks similar to Alocasia 'Portora' only with a dwarf growth habit.  It's an upright grower that only reaches 1-2' tall so it makes a nice plant for a small container to add a tropical feel wherever it's grown.  Easy-to-grow, it tolerates a variety of low-to-high light conditions.  4" pot.

R2864-4 New Introduction $14.95


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sales and our popular Bloom of the Week Photo.


Happy Planting,


Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Merry Christmas?

Once again, less than ten days before Christmas, the world is in turmoil  Maybe we should be stocking sugar cubes and carrots for the steeds of  The Four Horsemen, not milk and cookies for Santa.  Once again, innocents are slaughtered at the hands of those gone mad, and what's worse, many are young.  Too young.  We are still reeling over Dec. 14th two years ago, a day that used to full of happy anniversaries for me.

Now, it is the anniversary of horror.

On my way to work today, I mused yet again why anyone would murder in cold blood, and why they need to murder so many.  I try to understand, and feel some compassion for a person that distressed, that full of despair.  But what selfishness to take everyone with you.  Why little children who can't have lived long enough to harm anyone?  Why cruelty in other circles towards helpless animals?

The real horror, the domestic horror as Shirley Jackson might have understood it, is that these were innocents supposely in safe places.  Children going to school.  Remember that holidays at school?  Parties and programs full of Christmas and Hannukah songs.  Treats, packages wrapped up for the teacher?

Or, how many of us stop for coffee each morning.  Indeed, it's the highlight of the day for some of us.  That 34 year old and 38 year old killed wasn't thinking of death yesterday when each walked into a Sydney cafe. 

Peace on Earth, Goodwill towards all of us; where is it? Are we even capable of it.

Saturday, December 6, 2014

New Book on Laura Ingalls Wilder

Pioneer Girl: The Annotated Autobiography
A treasure trove of new details about the life and experiences of Little House on the Prairie creator Laura Ingalls Wilder and her pioneer family is offered in this book, edited by award-winning Wilder biographer Pamela Smith Hill and based on the author’s letters, manuscripts, and other documents from the time. Morris says, "Perhaps the biggest draw of Pioneer Girl is that it was written as more of a diary of memories, skipping back and forth as her mind saw fit, and it was not changed as the Little House ...more A treasure trove of new details about the life and experiences of Little House on the Prairie creator Laura Ingalls Wilder and her pioneer family is offered in this book, edited by award-winning Wilder biographer Pamela Smith Hill and based on the author’s letters, manuscripts, and other documents from the time. Morris says, "Perhaps the biggest draw of Pioneer Girl is that it was written as more of a diary of memories, skipping back and forth as her mind saw fit, and it was not changed as the Little House on the Prairie books were to add that little zing of which publishers are so fond. This is her story, stark, detailed, and wonderful, as she meant it to be."

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

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A good part of the country has been blessed with early snows.  My heart goes out to the folks in Buffalo and elsewhere; be safe. This week,we have a variety of doll posts with all thoughts moving towards the holiday.  Soon, excerpts from "Creepy A** Humans; The Dolls Reply."  Happy Thanksgiving!  
Grodnertal with Provenance
Wooden doll provenance linked to Queen Victoria! The story of a doll once played with by the great Queen and Doll Collector herself.
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In Praise of Souvenir Dolls
Great collections like Sam Pryor's, Laura Starr's, and Janet Pagter Johl's have been seeded by souvenir and tourist dolls, those small ambassadors of goodwill from faraway lands.  They are a worthy addition to any collection.
Search Related Topics:  international dolls  tourist dolls  souvenir dolls
Why not Everyone Collects Antique Dolls
You might be surprised at why some collectors prefer not to collect antique dolls, even when they admire them.
"Thrifty Treasures:" Discovering a Vintage Collection at Goodwill
A wonderful find gets better with great customer service. The dolls are now sorted and put away, some awaiting TLC, others ready for display. Thrift stores are still great places to find dolls, and buying them there does some good for others as well.
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Sunday, November 23, 2014

Eat, Drink and Be Married, A Couple Recipes, and Relatives for Dessert

Sunday Morning today is called "Eat, Drink and be Merry," and features eveyrthing on food, from menus, to Chinese food, to creating at 11 Madison Avenue without menus.  Chef Daniel Humm says that you wouldn't get a mineu dining at someone's home, so that's his philosophy.  Of course, you don't pay usually when you dine at someone's home, either.  Also there is a special on Mme. Cecilia Chang, guru of Chinese Food.  No moogoo, no chop suey, no egg foo young.  Sorry for typos; I'll fix it later.

The Mandarin was Mme. Chang's restaurant.  Kung Pao, Peking Duck, and Sesame Shrimp are authentic.

The recipes:

1. Easy Pot Roast.

You don't need a crockpot.  If you are a crock expert, and I'm not, go for it.  Hint:  Sunday AM is showing you how to make potroast, all tied up and everything, in a crock pot.

Take any cut of beef, less than 1 lb or so works. Chuck, eye of round, thick porterhouse, even, flank steak, probably. Spray a glass pan,  9 x 13, with pam, or grease it lightly. Place cut of beef or other meet.  You could probably use a chunk of tofu and veggie broth, too.  Pour a can of broth, aobut 12 oz over it, and if needed, add water till you reach about half way to the beef top.

Season meat; I used Italian seasoning, salt, pepper, about 5 shakes each, and a little basil.  Tuck a pat of butter in a couple of places in the meat.

Cut up celery, onions,  carrots, strips of fresh peppers, throw in some brussels sprouts, cabbage, or garlic.   Musrooms are good, too.

Bake in preheted 425 degree oven, about an hour and one half, till meat is cooked.  Cooking time varies with size of meat.

Refrigerate leftovers.  They are great if you skim the fat off the broth, aadd about 3 large tablespons of beef gravy, any kind. I used Heinz because it was on sale.  Microwave 3 minutes per serving or until hot.

Enjoy.  Makes about 6 servings.

2.  Meat Balls by my Mom:

1 lb lean ground beef, break up into a large mixing bowl.
about 1/4 chopped onion and/or celery

2 tbsp. grated cheese, parmesan is good

5 shakes each salt and pepper

Italian seasoning, garlic, oregano, basil

Curry is good, powdered, if you like space

Fresh herbs are great

2 eggs

Dash Worctershire sauce, optional

A couple lartge tbsp. bread crumbs, I used Italian

Mix all ingredients in large bowl.  

Greece a cookie sheet.  Heat oven to about 40.

Roll with your super clean hands liittle balls, aabout  1-2 inches in diameter.  Place on cookie sheet, 2 inches apart.  Then, bake, 15-20 mins.  Watch  carefully and when they brown or season, take it out.

Let cool.  Can be about 4 dozen meatballs.  Use on pasta, make sauce for it with tomatoes, make Swedish meatballs, sandwiches, or eat plain.

Can fry in olive oil, if preferred.

3. Chicken Soup:

1 chicken, clean and boil.  Skin if desired. 

When cooked, in about half an hour, in  a stockpot or Dutch oven, add all kinds of vegetables.  Salt and pepper to taste.  The longer you boil it, the better.

Refridgerate or freeze after use.

Relatives for dessert.

Let me say first off I love the holidays and autumn; I live for September thru December, and exist thru the rest of the year.   I can't tell  you why, but bad things happen to me during this time, and I usually get sick, but I still love it.

We used to celebrate every holiday with my mom.  When her sister was able, she sent packages with little gifts for every holiday, with everything beautifully wrapped.  I sent cards everywhere and made elaborate decorations.

Then, my mother died, and my father revealed that he hated all holidays.  No Xmas tree any more, no Jack O Lantern, nothing. 

So, turn to my husband's family, you say?

Wrong.  His sister schedules family fights for Thanksgiving, if she comes.  It used to be fun to join the cast of thousands who arrive, and the food is very good, but the dynamics are not.  I seem to be target number one for personal sniping.  Family members assign insults to me through various guests who deliver them.

The annual newsletter usually excludes us completely, step great-grand grandchildren we've number heard of are lauded over, but we're out.  I'm in as "the Greek person" in the list of ehtnicities and nationalities at the table. 

I usually get up and leave Xmas Eve.  I spend it alone.  This began with my own family ostracizing me years ago for dating my husband, and my current family ostracizing me for marrying their son and chief Scapegoat. Most of my siblings in law don't talk to him, or me, a. for defending him, and b) on the principle of guilt by association. They are waiting for my inlaws to die so they can inherit.  The way they live, my inlaws are going to outlive all of us. Good for them, too.  They work full time in their 80s, travel, exercise,socialize, run businesses.  Nothing stresses them.

My sister in law always arrives soused, I like to call her Aunt Zima, in tight pants, false boobs straining her tight, cheap sweaters, her bleached blonde bouffant 60s "That Girl" hair remaining solidly in palce, evcn in cold winter winds. I think she had her bottom padded, or whatever.  She used to be very thin; this new voluptuousness just doesn't look right.

"Becareful of the duck liver, it may have  buck shot in it!" She giggles, as she hints how she'd like to produce another boy as heir and a spare for my inlaws.  Our son doesn't count, of course.   If she runs out of booze, she throws gifts back in the giver's face, picks fights over Happy Meal toys, and generally sulks over what her Daddy would do if he were there. She's at least 51, and Daddy married a girl younger than she is.  Her mother is crazy, and lives out of state.  She did remarry and got help.  My sister in laws parents and step-parents are ten times nicer to me than she ever was.  She sees me as competition.  If she can't mooch of my in-laws, how will she live?  Her excon friends and the hookers she has associated with, not to mention her many boyfriends, will all suffer. Ah, the humanity!

The rest of them all drink and are loud.  Most are over 70.  Favorite topics, Politics, [sources: the Internet and SNL], sex, "Weird Medical Tests I have Loved," and sex.

My father in law tells me it helps to drink a lot. Unfortunately, I don't drink.   I'm too old to learn.

If you stick around long enough, you get to watch old people open their presents.  There really aren't any for me or my husband.  My son gets some insanely expensive gadget, and then fights with his spoiled, nasty little girl cousin over whose is better.  [The girls' usually is.  One of them leaves me"seial killer" hate notes disgusied as Xmas cards.  Yet, I'm the one who used to buy her things, and offer to take her out, write to her, email her.  Familiarity breeds contempt on her part. We're very proud of her; she just turned 21 and go her first tattoo].

I'm not into presents, ButI still give a lot of them.  I enjoy giving them and making them.  But, I never get anything any more.  My hustand is not big into Christmas. In fairness, his brother died three days before, and was buried on Xmas Eve.   I get why the celebrations are so dysfunctional.  I'm just not into making it worse.  We don't have to celebrate anything, but we don't have to make a mockery of Christmas, either.

We used to do a tree for his mother, with ornaments that belonged to our Jewish aunt. I know, but lots of people have Xmas stuff.  It's largely secular in many ways, anyway. Or at least, nondemoninational.  We don't do that anymore.  She has interior decorator type decorations, mainly fozen looking and icy.  Very appropo.

We usually head for the shopping centers out of town for sushi on Thanksgiving.  Or, I just stay home.

Thanksgiving and ChristmasI eat early with Dad, sometimes a can of soup.  He doesn't let me cook or bring anything. Last year, he threw out shrimp and lobster tail to spite me.  We go to the cemetery, which is really where my heart is anyway.  Dad goes to bed aby 6pm, up at 3. 

Christmas Eve my family used to open gifts, play carols,  sometimes go to Church.   I used to sing in the choir at Christmas, too.  In California, we had all kinds of seafood and homemade desserts.  We didn't have necessarily expensive gifts, but everyone had a lot, and they were fun and unusual things. We searched all year, made things, hit after Xmas sales.

I wrapped gifts on Halloween, if I could!  Did cards at Thanksgiving, had packages out by December 1. I get very few cards, now.  I wait to see who sends them before I mail any.  Money is always an issue anymore, and cards, to me, are the real gifts.  I scarcely have time to do them, but I miss the people who get them, so I try.  I email cards, too, and it's fun, but not the same. Still, I try to remember everyone somehow.

We called each other during the holidays, my family that is, though I dreaded the calls from my mother's in -laws.  They, too, were great at sniping at us "Americans," even if we are all fluent in Greek, and other languages for their snooty information. She usually ended up crying.  Now,  my Dad thinks' they're all the cat's pajamas. Sure the are, after the cat barfed in them.

I played carols on my guitar and piano, Joe, my wonderful guitar teacher, gave me a book of Xmas carols with chords. He used to write songs for me, and transpose the chords himself.  He was wonderful, and only aobut 8 years old than me.  And so patient.  Merry Christmas, Joe, wherever you are.  I miss you, and Monday nights at Grigg's Music.

My mom wrapped piles of presents, and hid little things on the tree and all over the house.  I did, too. Her birthday was three weeks after Xmas; I loved finding surprises for her and making her things, but she always seemed disappointed with the holidays.  I guess hers were not quite the same as with her own family, either.   Day after Xmas found us at Marshall Fields.  So did Black Friday.  Oh, to have one of MF's Yule Logs and to hear the music playing in the cold air.

I read a lot of Christmas Stories, including Tasha Tudor's book on Xmas, "Take Joy."

Wish I still could do these things. Wish we could play "The Little Drummer Boy" on the record player.

Now, I try to go to church with Dad, and to the cemetery.  I send packages to my Aunt and Uncle in California.  I miss them, and my home there, and Xmas roses.

I think of my Mother constantly.   I live in my memories, and listen to the Christmas caorls and songs on the radio.  I hate the modern sad ones.  Go get a life,  I say.

I remember how she cooked.  When I can, I bake her recipes.  Like those above, I cook them, too. 
I play carols on the piano, I look at the store displays. I take out our ornaments, even if I can't display them, and just look.

My kitties don't let us have a real tree, and I don't have a lot of room anymore to decorate as I did, but I sitll like to look, and add an ornament to our family collection  My Mom loved them, and one day, you never know. She used to buy me Nativity figure at Woolworth's, and later, she started a Fontanini collection.  We bough a fruitcake just for kicks and tradition, and strung popcorn.

So, Merry Christmas, Happy Thanksgiving, of course, and everyone hang in there.  Remember, Christmas is a feeling of goodwil for everyone.  Keep it in your heart, even when everyone else is fighting over the xbox.

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Newsletter About.com

Those who get the Doll Collecting at About.com Newsletter; please be patient. There has been a glitch with publishing it beyond my control. You may read it on my blog, Dr. E's Doll Museum. at http://wwwdollmuseum.blogspot.com/ I am sorry for the incovenience. I did resend it, so you may get two copies.

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

We've Remodeled' Check out our New Look!

With the changing seasons, we've decided to change our look.  Bitter winds blow early this year, and we hope they sweep away and cleanse bittter memories anyone out there may have.  Speaking of bitter thoughts, briefly let me comment on "Scandals," a Fall CBS show that is new.  I watched it with trepidation; I am the victim of a stalker myself.  Nothing has happened for some time, but I'm always looking over my shoulder, more than13 years after the stalking began.  The show was realistic in many ways, except that the police in the show are way too caring.

Usually, nothing happens.  Local police like to throw back to the civil arena, or they want the victim to play detective.  Not a good idea.

Also, the police officer, a woman, in charge of the "stalking unit" online is herself a victim with secrets.  Nice dramatic touch, but who knows?

Gavin De Backer's "The Gift  of Fear" is a good read for those of us who have this problem. The book builds awareness, yet instills courage and confidence.  There are also other good books that help by various psychology groups.

One day, I'll publish the log I kept of everything that happened to me, and my legal odyssey.  Only one Congressional Rep. helped; he could do nothing but sent a personal note commiserating with me about his stalker.  He died this week, very young, from a chronic illness.  I said a lot of prayers for him.

I hope you like our new look.  Please comment, but keep it family friendly.   More soon on farm to table dining and a new book on eating local. Blessed be!

Original Tips 28-31

Just in time for the holidays, we are publishing again these three from our original 49 tips.

28. If your VCR still works, don’t toss it. Make use of videos.
29. The radio is still a great option, so are cassette players for those of us who still have them, so are records and turntables. Vinyl records can be valuable collectibles, but they are still affordable in various types of conditions. Or, if you play an instrument, get it out and dust it off. Pay attention to the composers, to how things are composed, see what different types of genres and music the composer has written, for what instrument. These are vocations in themselves, and interest nearly everyone. Take a survey and ask friends family, students, etc., what types of music they like, and you will find we are all amateur experts in certain types of music. Sharing that knowledge is one of they joys of everyday living.
30. Unplug it if you don’t use it.
31. Crafts; consider collage and decoupage; assemblage, use materials you already have. Making toys and paper dolls from old clothes, socks, yarns, magazines, and papers is a time-honored tradition. Same for Christmas ornaments. Repair toys that break; what we need are a regular doll hospital around here, not just for collectors toys, but for everyday toys for kids. Also, check the manufacturer; toys are under warranty, too, and Mattel and other companies have been known to repair their own toys and send them back

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Friday, November 14, 2014

Something to Share in Memory of Balzac and Organic Coffee Lovers and Growers Everywhere!

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Wednesday, November 12, 2014

An Oldie but Goodie; Holiday Tips, DeStressing, and a Memory of Violets in October

Violets in October


I was walking to my in-laws the other day with my twelve-year-old son.  Always look down and up, I say, or you miss a lot.  In late October, there were violets growing and blooming along the sidewalk.  They are usually gone shortly after May; in fact, I used to populate my early May baskets with all color and kind of violet, and tried many methods of preserving them.  Seeing them this late in Autumn, all glorious purple in symphony with the red and gold leaves surrounding them on the ground made me uncommonly happy.  One of my best friends in the world was named Violet Ellen, no coincidence, I think.  Just the other day I took out a bunch of purple silk violets attached to a brooch to wear.  Something told me they were autumnal yet, and Mother Nature proved me right.


One never knows where inspiration will come.  My unlikely muse appeared this morning when I was watching one of my favorite shows, Sunday Morning.  Keith Richards talked about his life, and his phenomenal immune system and strong constitution.  Well, I supposed he would have to have one like that!  He began to talk about his lemon tree and gardens, and it turns out that he was “always planting something.”  I found that inspirational, and it made his music mean more to me.  Such a simple act, so fundamental and basic as planting to promote life, keeps people going and ties them together no matter who they are or what they do in life.  He, too, is an artist, and a craftsman, and a citizen of the world.


I dedicate this blog to my dear friend Francesca and her new husband Tracy.  They are a beautiful couple, and I’m very happy for them.  We, too, are now autumnal, but we continue to bloom as though we are in eternal spring.


My idea for the day is the Holiday cake.  I’ll start with Halloween, and move on to Winter, Christmas, even Valentine’s day [the latter is not my favorite holiday, but I love the color and trappings, the Valentines themselves, and the story of the Saint who gave the holiday its name].


For a Halloween cake, which I’m sure you’ve seen in cooking mags, and in Better Homes and Gardens and Good Housekeeping, start with a cake mix, usually chocolate or devils food, or use your own home made cake.    Then, use a dark fudge, chocolate, or smooth creamy frosting.  My husband makes fantastic frosting from scratch, but for “art projects” like this, I like canned, Betty Crocker or Duncan Hines, or your store’s brand, which can save money.  Look for sales.


For other ingredients, small gummi worms and bugs, any candy bugs or monsters, marshmallows, large, Lorna Doone’s, Pepperidge Farm Chessman, other squarish cookies like Vienna fingers, or even chocolate covered grahams or Fig Newtons, candy sprinkles in Halloween colors, food coloring, tubes of icing, cake decorations for Halloween, candy pumpkins, pretzels to make fences, etc.  Finally, chocolate wafer cookies are needed in large quantities.  You will crumble them, to make “dirt.” Think old-fashioned graveyard, ghosts, and tombstones.  My miniaturist friends and muses like Margaret Grace and Deb Baker, and the late Mrs. Lee and Mrs. Thorne would excel at this type of culinary activity.  Martha Stewart would have a few ideas, too.


Bake the cake in a large square or rectangular pan.  Glass works, and so do large, somewhat deeper cooking sheets, the kind used to make the layers of Yule log.  You’ve seen them on Julia Child and Jacques Pepin TV shows.  Bake according to recipe or directions. I leave the cake in the pan.  Let cool.  Ice with the dark chocolate frosting.


The, let the frosting set a little bit, and the fun begins!


You can use a photo or drawing of an old graveyard, or maybe you have a picture of a graveyard cake.  Arrange cookies like tombstones.  You can write names on them with the icing tubes.  Crumble the cookies and scatter over the frosting to make the dirt.  Create small fences, and maybe even a tomb or sarcophagus with the square cookies.  You can get creative and slice gumdrops for shingles or use candy corn or candy rocks here and there  to make paths and ruins and stone benches.  If you are artistic, you can make Marzipan figures and ghosts, especially for the tops of sarcophagi.  Talk to your friends who make gingerbread houses and terrariums.  Make ghosts by spearing or “impaling” [a nod to Vlad Tepes!] two large marshmallows together.  Arrange candy pumpkins in a pumpkin patch, and scatter gummi worms and monsters.  You could also use plastic and porcelain cake decorations, like the kind I buy made in France, originally made for New Years bread and cakes.  Voila!  Display.  This is a great project for the Blue and Gold banquet the boy scouts have, because there is always a cake contest.


If you want a vampire cake, use red velvet cake as the base and go whiled.  You could go very Goth with it if you like.


For Thanksgiving, there are tiny turkeys and pilgrims, or you can make them of candy or Marzipan.  Use food coloring to tint cocoanut to make “hay” to scatter and use pretzels to build cabins or make fences.   There are a lot of Native American art miniatures and little tables and pots and pans to create the first Thanksgiving dinner.  These can also be made of nontoxic bread dough clay, recipes on the net, or of marzipan.  Think Thanksgiving colors, if you can make little flowers, do it,  also, large bubble gum balls with some frosting or slivered almonds attached as “feathers” make good turkeys.


For Christmas, you could use any cake for a base, as you really could for Halloween, since the frosting will cover it, but I think that a red velvet cake with white frosting would be great for Christmas or Valentine’s day, even 4th of July depending on how you decorate it.  Follow same baking, cooling, frosting directions as above for Halloween cake.


For Christmas scenes, you can build graham cracker or tiny gingerbread houses, or use decorations like tiny bisque light up houses, great with an led candle inside, candy canes to build and make fences, [think Candy Cane lane], Dept. 56 or Lemax figures and miniatures to populate the top of the cake, mirrors or foil for little skating ponds, edible silver and gold dragee decorations, marshmallow and toothpick snow men with licorice gumdrops hats, all sorts of Christmas candy, doilies, or vintage cardboard houses.  Get some old Wilton cake decorating books, and if you are a lucky collector, Dennison crepe paper idea books to peruse.


For Valentine’s day, you can decorate with pink icing, tiny cake decorations, you can make stand up heart people with cake decorations or gingerbread magic.  Also, tiny cherubs and miniature marble columns made for wedding cakes, pink bridesmaid or Quincenera statutes, tiny Polly pockets in pink, etc, would make great toppers for a Valentine’s cake as well.  There are still candy Kewpies made and sold this time of year, as well as the great classic conversation hearts, which would make great pebbles for pathways or shingles.   Again, if you are good with marzipan, go for it.


For St. Patrick’s day, try a white cake colored with lime yellow or green food coloring.  You could also tint icing green.  Make a miniature Irish cottage out of graham crackers or gingerbread, and use the gold, green, and orange colors of St. Pat’s.  You can find all kinds of miniatures There are tiny pots of cold, and these could be made as well with a chocolate dessert cup filled with gold jelly beans of dragees.


For Easter, use any yellow, white, or pink cake, or use food coloring.  Tint frosting yellow or maybe lavender, and use the bisque light up houses and figures sold at Walgreen’s and dollar stores for Easter, or make your own as described above.  Miniature Royal Doulton bunnies are great additions to this type of cake decoration, or make bunnies of marshmallows and candies. Plastic and candy eggs abound to inspire you, as do miniature chocolate rabbits.  You could use Easter grass, or use cocoanut.  There are tiny baskets in craft stores and wooden ornaments, and even miniature Easter trees you could use.


For the 4th of July, use the red velvet cake, and white frosting, and look for Dept. 56 4th figures, miniatures of Uncle Sam, red, white, and blue Jelly Bellies and berries, make houses as described above, use marshmallows and tiny American flags. 


These cakes have become great family traditions, for us.  You could adapt the decorating ideas to cupcakes, or smaller loaf cakes, and they are great hostess gifts or pot luck contributions.  They are also good centerpieces.  You can make  them as complicated or simple as you like, and they are creative and can involve the whole family.


Other Holiday gift ideas for an handmade, thoughtful, but cost-effective holiday:


  1. Cut pictures from old cards to use as collage for new ones.  Punch a whole in them and use pretty colored yarn or ribbons to make a garland or individual ornaments.  They are also great to cut out as paper dolls, or to decorate gift wrap.
  2. For gift wrap, invest in some plain newsprint, which you can buy at Office Supply Stores like Staples or Office Max, and decorate with No. 1.  Or, use newspaper, B and W or the colorful funny pages and comics.  Plain brown paper decorated with dried flowers, bittersweet, holly, or evergreens is great.  Even fake florists picks work, and all the big craft stores have huge varieties already on sale.  Watch pets if you want to use  the bittersweet and holly.  The plain brown paper idea is also very Victorian.  Aluminum foil or Mylar paper is great, old wallpaper samples, and craft paper of all types.  Brown bags, either cut up, or used as decorated gift bags work, too.  Colorful or plain cellophane tied with pretty ribbons, especially silk, which can be recycled, are pretty.  I like to use lace as well.  If you are giving a large piece of linen or a towel, use it as a gift wrap and tie it all up with twine, raffia, or ribbon.  Save little toys and tiny ornaments to decorate packages.  Costume jewelry and beads work well, as do holly leaves and tried twigs glued on to look like winter trees.  I also like to make snowmen from cotton balls, a trick my mom showed me, and glue them on the package.   There are oodles of ideas for hiding gifts, or wrapping tiny packages within huge boxes to throw off the scent, as it were.  I also love gift baskets, and use all sorts of containers, especially pretty boxes or vintage tins.  You can also decoupage or spray paint what you want.
  3. Along the same lines, if there is a crafter in your family, go through your art/craft supplies, and create a craft box or basket for them.  I include pages from magazines I like to cut up and use, Victorian scraps, glue sticks, safety scissors, buttons, material swatches, little jars of beads and clay, small watercolor sets, colored pens and pencils, mini notepads, little sewing kits, pins, and needles, pincushions, you name it.  Most of these are things I have, or they are supplemented from the dollar store.  Etsy is also a good source for finding kits of these materials reasonably.
  4. Christmas ornaments with a lovely note or card are great office and hostess gifts.  Great Hanukah gifts are gold chocolate coins in boxes wrapped in blue Mylar paper.  Go to Marilyn Waters’ The Toy Maker site, just google it.  She has dozens of free printouts and projects for holidays, including easy boxes and favors for Hanukah, Christmas, Kwanzaa, you name it.  There are other sites for creating paper toys, cards, and book marks for Day of the Dead, Purim, Ramadan, Christmas, and Kwanzaa.  Waters also has plans for Halloween houses and toy theaters, as well as games and paper dolls, all in color, all printable.
  5. Select your favorite poems, write them, select images, and make a scrapbook for the holidays.  There are many images in public domain and clipart you can use.  Also, there are old magazine images and dozens of ideas from scrapbook stores or sites.  You can include recipes, or compile a cookbook, use family photos, etc.  You can also make calendars, albums or date books.  Kids love to do it, and it is a great alternative to the “Christmas Letter.”
  6. Go to the dollar store, flea market, or craft store, and look for sales like mad.  For about ten dollars, you can build a theme stocking or basket for a child or teen.  You can put together Nativities for older recipients, a neat purse with cosmetics or toiletries, a roasting pot with cooking utensils and mixes, a bucket with carwash and car care paraphernalia, etc.
  7. Vintage books, or dollar store books, stacked and tied with a pretty ribbon, also sold by the spool in craft stores and dollar stores, are wonderful for those of us who love to read.  They make great office gifts and contributions to silent auctions.  Check out Barnes and Noble, Borders, and  Walden, they are having more book and card sales than ever.
  8. Bake, and package attractively as described above.  Most of my gifts will be baked goods this year, made from my Mom and Grandmother’s recipes.  When I cook from their handwritten, hand compiled recipes, I feel like they are standing next to me, telling me what to do.
  9. Knitters and cricketers, do I have to say more?  Get moving!  Yarn is on sale everywhere, the dollar store has great deals.  You can do simple book marks for small gifts or stocking stuffers, edge hankies or doilies, you name it.  So, “Stitch and Bitch!”  You can combine knitting/crochet get-togethers with holiday parties, pot lucks, or tree trimming.  Kids can ge involved, too.  They can always make yarn dolls or ornaments wrapping yarn around Styrofoam.  Visit you local library book sales and stores for patterns, McCall’s Needlework and Crafts, and Martha Stewart Living magazines.
  10. Kits, all kinds of them, simple and complicated abound this time of year.  They can be made as is, used, or adapted.  Michaels has great one’s for kids.  Get them unplugged and teach them to use their hands.
  11. Having said that, there are digital programs and ideas out there, many free, for making family books and albums you “publish.”  You can also get these made at Walgreen’s and other photos centers.
  12. One of the best gifts I got from an office friend was a box of Christmas cards.  She knew I needed them, but did not have time to get any or make any.  See what someone needs, even if it is small like this, and help out.  Offer to decorate someone’s tree, or help with yard ornaments.  If you have the time, give an hour to baby-sit, promise to cook a casserole or covered dish [and do it!], take someone out to dinner, help with spring planting, etc., or with Holiday clean up if your recipient is hosting a gathering.  They will love you for it.
  13. Have a gift for everyone!  I mean it!  Drawing names is great in big families, so is limiting gifts to children, but you can always print a book mark, enclose a favorite photo in a card, fill a bag with someone’s favorite candy, gum, or mints, buy a box of twelve ornaments at the dollar store, and hand one out to everyone in your family at dinner.  I handed out collage jewelry and small ornaments as favors at my wedding.  Everyone loved them.  I also made candy bags one Christmas as favors, and included ornaments made and decoupaged from luggage tags.  People still talk about them, and I will do something again this year.
  14. Shop sales, shop all year, and put all in a plastic tub.  Think small, and use the prepaid post office boxes.  I go to all kinds of craft sales, rock shows, flea markets, and antique markets, and surf the net and old books for ideas.  I watch Create on PBS, and always have my radar on.
  15. duplicate the simple gifts in Little House on the Prairie, Little Women, and other vintage stories.  Include a copy of the book, or a Bibliomania or Web URL so that your recipient can read the entire story.


Even in a recession, the holidays don’t have to suffer.  It really is the thought, and a few well-chosen and printed essays on that subject, wouldn’t hurt to be included in someone’s stocking.